By Getrude Matayo
Men are often reluctant to talk about their needs in an intimate relationship. They want to take care of people they love and feel appreciated for it. This makes them feel good.
Men want a relationship where they can feel good about themselves and where they can feel like they are with someone who is mature. Being able to communicate and compromise are just some aspects of a mature relationship.
Respect
Everyone deserves respect, men and women tend to feel differently about what it means. If he feels like you disapprove of him/ his career or the things that he believes to be integral to who he is as a person, he will have a hard time trusting and loving you.
Men Want Brains
Any smart man wants a smart woman. Someone who is intelligent and strong, who has an opinion of her own, even if it differs from his. They like to be mentally challenged and stimulated. They want to be taught something new, to be inspired, and to see the world from a different perspective sometimes.
Independent Women
Nowadays, men are actively seeking women who are self-sufficient, not dependent. They admire and respect a hardworking woman who can contribute to the partnership on many levels including financially
Good Kiss and Sexual Variety
Men and women both connect through sex and communication but generally, women connect better through verbal communication and men connect better through sex.
It is impossible to talk about what men want women to do without delving into sex. Sexy lingerie, different positions, a hot make-out session in public, or anything new, really, will drive him wild. He won’t ask for it but, he will want it and it is also one of the best ways to create intimacy.
Acceptance of His Help
You are without a doubt, independent, confident, and entirely capable of looking after yourself. However, that has absolutely nothing to do with allowing your man to help you. We all love to feel needed and this is why he can show you his love through action rather than emotion.
Space
If you are searching for a good way of ending your relationship with him, there is no better way to do that than suffocate him with your presence or behaviors that show signs of jealousy. A lot of men say that they need their breathing space, men need time to do their hobbies and to work on their projects
Men Like When You Stay Sexy
If you are his partner, you will need to always ensure that you take care of yourself as you pay attention to the things that he finds beautiful in you.
It is very easy to get comfortable in your relationship and routine. Switch things up in bed, make the first move sometimes to initiate sex, do something different together, be open about your desires and needs in bed.
Compliments and Appreciation
A man is probably never going to ask you to compliment him more for fear of sounding like he needs his ego stroked. It’s much more likely that he is complimenting you all the time whether its because you look pretty, say something funny.
Trust
If your man feels like you don’t trust him, he will have a hard time trusting you. Its empowering to feel trusted. It an acknowledgment that you think he is a great guy. Jumping into conclusions, being paranoid or consistently doubting his intentions on the other hand is offensive to someone trying to earn your trust.
Be His Buddy
Make him feel good in front of his friends and important people. Being his buddy means being on his side and accepting him the way he is just like a true friend would.
Communication
The minds of men and women are different. As a woman, you must understand this. If you want to make your life easier, make it easier for your man to understand what you want and need by telling him. Give him the direction he needs to make you happy.