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From Blame to Responsibility: The Power Of Positive Habits For Entrepreneurial Success And Wealth Generation

BY Steve Biko Wafula · April 23, 2023 11:04 am

KEY POINTS

Negative thoughts and actions can be self-defeating and demotivating. If we constantly blame others for our failures or complain about our circumstances, we are less likely to take ownership of our situations and work to improve them. 

KEY TAKEAWAYS

The people we surround ourselves with can have a significant impact on our success. Successful entrepreneurs seek out mentors who can offer guidance, support, and expertise. By surrounding themselves with positive influences, they are better equipped to achieve their goals. Haitians have a Proverbs that specifically talks about this and it says… "Tell me who your friends are and I'll tell you who you are."

Henry Ford once said…” Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t, you’re right.’’ And this is echoed better in Philippians 4:8…”Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” There is a constant battle deep within our essence between good and bad thoughts. The aura of our being. What defines who we are?

Replacing negative thoughts or actions with positive ones is critical for success in entrepreneurship and making good money for several reasons. Firstly, negative thoughts and actions can limit our ability to see opportunities and take action on them. If we are constantly focused on what we can’t do or what we are lacking, we may miss out on potential opportunities to grow our businesses or generate income. On the other hand, positive thoughts and actions can help us see opportunities more clearly and take bold action to pursue them.

Negative thoughts and actions can be self-defeating and demotivating. If we constantly blame others for our failures or complain about our circumstances, we are less likely to take ownership of our situations and work to improve them. By replacing blame and complaining with responsibility and gratitude, we can shift our mindset towards one of growth and progress.

Negative thoughts and actions can create a toxic environment that can undermine our success. Toxic friends or influencers can discourage us from pursuing our dreams or make us feel inadequate, while mentors and inspiring creators can help us stay motivated and inspired. By surrounding ourselves with positive influences and cultivating a positive mindset, we are more likely to create a supportive environment that encourages us to achieve our goals.

Negative Thoughts that need Replacing if one is to succeed in his or her entrepreneurial journey and make some good money;

Replacing negative thoughts and actions with positive ones is essential for success in entrepreneurship and making good money. By embracing a growth mindset, taking ownership of our situations, surrounding ourselves with positive influences, and cultivating a sense of gratitude and purpose, we can build successful and fulfilling businesses that make a positive impact on our lives and the world around us.

  1. Replace Failing with Learning: In entrepreneurship and money, failure is often seen as a necessary step toward success. Instead of viewing failure as a setback, it’s important to see it as an opportunity to learn and grow. As Thomas Edison once said, “I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” Entrepreneurs who embrace failure as a learning opportunity are more likely to achieve success in the long run. The Japanese have a Proverb that says…”Fall seven times, stand up eight.” But this is summed up better in Proverbs 24:16;…”For though the righteous fall seven times, they rise again, but the wicked stumble when calamity strikes.” A good example of understanding what failure is, is Sara Blakely, the founder of Spanx, who faced numerous rejections when trying to get her idea off the ground. However, she persisted and learned from each setback. Today, Spanx is a multi-billion dollar company.
  1. Replace Overthinking with Action: While it’s important to plan and strategize, overthinking can often lead to inaction. Successful entrepreneurs understand the importance of taking action and making things happen. As Mark Twain once said, “The secret of getting ahead is getting started.” The Chinese have a saying that says…”A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” But my favorite is how the Bible sums up this issue of getting into action in Proverbs 16:3… “Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.” A good example of an entrepreneur who espouses this is Elon Musk, the founder of SpaceX and Tesla, who is known for his ability to take action and pursue ambitious goals. His companies have disrupted industries and pushed the boundaries of what’s possible.
  1. Replace Blame with Responsibility: It’s easy to blame others or external factors for failure, but successful entrepreneurs take responsibility for their actions and outcomes. By owning their mistakes and learning from them, they are better equipped to make progress and achieve success. The Chinese, who are known as industrious entrepreneurs, have a Proverb that says… “He who blames others has a long way to go on his journey. He who blames himself is halfway there. He who blames no one has arrived.” But the best way to understand this is how it is summarized in the Bible, in the book of Romans 14:12…”So then each of us will give an account of himself to God.” A good example of an entrepreneur who espoused this in their lives and inspired millions is Oprah Winfrey, a media mogul, and philanthropist, who has spoken openly about her difficult childhood and the challenges she faced early in her career. However, she has always taken responsibility for her own choices and worked to overcome obstacles.
  1. Replace Toxic Friends with Mentors: The people we surround ourselves with can have a significant impact on our success. Successful entrepreneurs seek out mentors who can offer guidance, support, and expertise. By surrounding themselves with positive influences, they are better equipped to achieve their goals. Haitians have a Proverbs that specifically talks about this and it says… “Tell me who your friends are and I’ll tell you who you are.” But the best explanation is from King Solomon in Proverbs 13:20, when he said… “Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.” Bill Gates is the best example of someone who has acknowledged the importance of mentors. Bill Gates, the co-founder of Microsoft, has always credited his mentor Warren Buffett with helping him to think about business and philanthropy in new ways.
  1. Replace Complaining with Gratitude: Entrepreneurship can be a challenging and stressful journey, but successful entrepreneurs focus on the positive aspects and express gratitude for their opportunities. By adopting an attitude of gratitude, they are able to stay motivated and persevere through difficult times. Aesop once said…”Gratitude is the sign of noble souls.” But in Thessalonians 5:18, the Bible summarizes it perfectly…”Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” Sara Blakely, the founder of Spanx, who has spoken about the importance of gratitude in her life and business, is the best example of this. She has said, “The more grateful you are, the more you attract things to be grateful for.” Amen.
  1. Replace Fake Influencers with Inspiring Creators: In today’s social media-driven world, it’s easy to be drawn in by influencers who promote unrealistic or unhealthy ideals. Successful entrepreneurs seek out creators who inspire and motivate them to be their best selves. The Scottish put it better with their Proverb, which says… “Choose your companions from the best; Who draws a bucket with the rest soon topples down the hill.” Do you get it? In Hebrews 12:1, the Bible says…”Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us.” Dedication. Commitment. Integrity. Fairness. Kindness. Consistency. I believe Gary Vaynerchuk, an entrepreneur and social media influencer, who has built his brand around authenticity and honesty, is the best example of this. He encourages his followers to focus on their own goals and passions, rather than trying to conform to the expectations of others.
  1. Replace Greed with Purpose: While financial success is often a driving force for entrepreneurs, it’s important to remember the importance of purpose and meaning. By focusing on a higher purpose or mission, entrepreneurs are able to create more meaningful and fulfilling businesses. The Filipinos have a saying that goes…”It is not in your bank account but in your heart where your wealth lies.” Try telling this to a young, ambitious Kenyan, and you will be lynched but the Bible is more clearer in Matthew 6:19-20, where it says…”Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moths and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moths and vermin do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal.” I believe a good brand that espouses this is Patagonia, an outdoor clothing and gear company, which has built its brand around a commitment to environmental sustainability and social responsibility. By focusing on a higher purpose, they have created a loyal following of customers who share their values. What do you think?
  1. Replace Complacency with Continuous Improvement: Successful entrepreneurs understand the importance of continually learning and growing. By embracing a growth mindset and seeking out opportunities to improve, they are better equipped to stay ahead of the competition. The Chinese have a Proverb that clearly explains this. It goes like this… “Learning is a treasure that will follow its owner everywhere.” But the Bible is more apt, it says in Proverbs 1:5…”Let the wise listen and add to their learning, and let the discerning get guidance.” A good example of someone who has consistently improved themselves or their businesses is Jeff Bezos, Who is the founder of Amazon and has built a culture of innovation and continuous improvement within his company. He famously said, “If you’re not stubborn, you’ll give up on experiments too soon. And if you’re not flexible, you’ll pound your head against the wall and you won’t see a different solution to a problem you’re trying to solve.”
  1. Replace Fear with Courage: Entrepreneurship can be a scary and uncertain journey, but successful entrepreneurs have the courage to take risks and pursue their dreams. By facing their fears and stepping outside their comfort zone, they are able to achieve great things. There is a Proverb in Latin that says… “Fortune favors the brave.” And the Bible is more articulate on the essence of courage in Deuteronomy 31:6, where it says…”Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.” A good example of someone who is courageous is Elon Musk. Elon Musk, the founder of SpaceX and Tesla, has pursued ambitious goals that many people initially thought were impossible. He has said, “A failure is an option here. If things are not failing, you are not innovating enough.”
  1. Replace Short-term Thinking with Long-term Planning: While it’s important to focus on short-term goals and milestones, successful entrepreneurs also understand the importance of long-term planning and strategy. By setting long-term goals and developing a plan to achieve them, they are able to create sustainable businesses that can withstand challenges and continue to grow. The Chinese put it better in their Proverb, which says… “The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now.” The Bible explains this, differently and in a unique way. In Luke 14:28, the Bible says…”Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Won’t you first sit down and estimate the cost to see if you have enough money to complete it?” A good example of this would be Bill Gates. Bill Gates, the co-founder of Microsoft, has spoken about the importance of long-term thinking in his business strategy. He said, “We always overestimate the change that will occur in the next two years and underestimate the change that will occur in the next ten. Don’t let yourself be lulled into inaction.”

In conclusion, successful entrepreneurship and financial success require a willingness to replace negative habits and thought patterns with positive ones. By embracing a growth mindset, seeking out mentors and inspiring creators, and focusing on purpose and long-term planning, entrepreneurs can build successful and fulfilling businesses that make a positive impact on the world.

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Steve Biko is the CEO OF Soko Directory and the founder of Hidalgo Group of Companies. Steve is currently developing his career in law, finance, entrepreneurship and digital consultancy; and has been implementing consultancy assignments for client organizations comprising of trainings besides capacity building in entrepreneurial matters.He can be reached on: +254 20 510 1124 or Email: info@sokodirectory.com

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